Like many inspired ideas, the notion to live for a year according to the Bible's instructions for women came to writer Rachel Held Evans while she was taking a shower. "I was thinking about the book 'The Year of Living Biblically' [by male journalist A. J. Jacobs] and how different it would be if a woman had written it," the Tennessee native tells Shine. She embarked on a 12-month radical experiment to explore the Bible's rules for women—from not cutting her hair to calling her husband "master"—and wrote about it in on her popular blog. A book about her experiences, 'A Year of Biblical Womanhood' is being released at the end of October.
Evans was raised an Evangelical Christian and says within that community there is a lot of pressure for women to live according to the Bible. However, the way she sees it, many of the rules that are espoused by church leaders or in articles are "bullet points" that force women to be submissive. "The term 'Biblical womanhood' is basically a reaction to feminism,' explains Evans. "It means a woman who stays home and submits to her husband. It's a remembrance of June Cleaver—not what we see when we actually read scripture."
The response to her blog has been overwhelmingly positive, but she says she was surprised at "how harsh some of the criticism has been." She also asserts that Lifeway, the country's largest Christian bookseller, won't stock the book because it mentions the word, "vagina." While Evans acknowledges the book is full of "crazy stunts," her aim wasn't to be mocking. "It was hard facing criticism from people who didn't understand what I was trying to do," she tells Shine. "They thought I was making fun of the Bible, when I was really trying to honor the Bible by having more honest conversations about how we interpret and apply it. I'm hoping that when people read the book, they see that."
Evan's husband, Dan, fully supported her project, but she says some of her stunts, such as praising him with a sign "outside the city gates," as instructed by Proverbs or calling him "master,' "freaked him out."
A Christmas present to her "master."
Since Evans doesn't have children, she ordered a "Baby Think It Over" computerized infant to explore the Bible's instructions for mothers. After a series of 3 a.m. feedings, she called this particular experiment "a nightmare."
Evan's matzo toffee. In addition to learning to cook, she consulted with an Orthodox Jewish woman in Israel about how to celebrate the Jewish holidays, which she says was one of the most rewarding aspects of her year.
Evans slept in a tent when menstruating. Considered "impure," she also avoided touching men and carried around her own cushion to sit on.
When she complained, nagged, or gossiped, Evans had to put a penny in a "jar of contention." Within the first couple of days, she added 26 pennies.
For every penny in her "jar of contention," Evans spent one minute sitting on her roof as penance. According to the Proverbs, it's better to "live on the rooftop of a house" than with a contentious woman.
Evans tried to make her own clothes. She ended up enlisting her mother's help since she had "never even sewed a button on before."
Evans tells Shine that the first thing she did when her year was over was go to a salon. "The Apostle Paul wrote that it is a woman's glory to have long hair, and I'm convinced he would have written no such thing had he met me!"
This is great stuff. Looking honestly at what is in the bible is a good start at resolving differing views of what is there.
ReplyDeleteBefore I go on, let it be understood, I wholeheartedly adhere to the philosophy that opinions come from imperfect minds now tainted by sin. Therefore opinions are somewhat like armpits. Some are nice and some stink. (Quite possibly that includes my own).
My thinking is, the majority of emphasis should be given to the new testament. Life in the old was much harsher, more dangerous, and often life hung by a string with all the instability. The new testament gives us a softer approach, in my imperfect opinion. And it therefore should be taken as a revision to the old rather than a mere supplement.
When Paul wrote in 1Cor 14:34 that wives should be silent in church we need to consider that wives at that time sat ACROSS THE AISLE in a separate place. So to talk to their husband they would have to shout in church. Not the best situation. Now look to the verse immediately before, 1Cor 14:33 and we learn God is not the author of confusion but of peace. So sometimes we need to learn the customs of the day and read the WHOLE chapter before deciding what is meant by ONE verse.
Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her".
Does that sound like a wife is now supposed to be a third class citizen? There are many verses that admonish the husband to love his wife and make it known to her that she is indeed special to him. Many old testament teachings were for a variety of reasons. Some had to do with hygiene and believe it or not, some had to do with separating man and wife so she was at her most fertile time of the month when they came together. That sounds like a plan to populate the world with lots of people for God to bring to salvation!
The world can still be a harsh place and I am certain God intended the man should be the spiritual leader. (So long as he is a spiritual man). That would explain the admonition for wife to submit to the husband, to not to "teach" him. If you have ever known a couple where the wife was "teaching" the husband, as in correcting or criticizing him, you witnessed a situation where soon the man became so unsure of himself, he just stepped back and let the woman run the household. And soon she began to lose respect for him.
Marriage should be a partnership. I have been criticized for saying it should be a 51/49% relationship. The man having the 51%. But I was praised by a woman pastor for taking that stance. Get that? The wife in that marriage is the pastor of the church and yet she agreed that in the home, the husband should have the 51% where it comes to determining what the family does and how they do it. She looked at him and said, "I hadn't really thought about it but we already have that kind of relationship".
So she, as a pastor, had determined on her own that the 51/49% was the situation that made her most comfortable spiritually and in practice.
There were many things written in the old testament that were written by men with the heart of a pharisee. They were so concerned with offending God they even detailed how many steps you could take on the Sabbath. Or you shouldn't even light a fire. (Let the children shiver rather than offend God). I am certain we can agree that is the very kind of issue Jesus meant to dispel when he was on this earth.
So please, let us move into the New testament, taking the advice to love one another as Jesus loved us. Sinners and imperfect are we all.