Becoming transgender is a touchy issue. But it’s even a more sensitive topic when you factor in the age one decides to become transgender.
One California family is allowing their son to make a life-altering decision at the young and impressionable age of 4. He wants to become a girl.
From The Daily Caller:
Some parents are preparing to transition their children from one gender to the other as early as pre-school.National Public Radio interviews one Oakland, Calif. family with a young child who started life out as “Jack” but became “Jackie” by age four.
Mary Carter described to NPR the day “Jackie” told her he wanted to be a girl.
“Jackie just looked really, really sad; sadder than a 3-and-a-half-year-old should look,” Carter says. “This weight that looked like it weighed more than she did, something she had to say and I didn’t know what that was.”“So I asked. I said, ‘Jackie, are you sad that you’re not going to school today?’ And Jackie was really quiet and put her head down and said ‘No, I’m sad because I’m a boy.’”According to NPR, the child was already his older sister’s dresses on regular occasions liked wearing pink boots.
The parents continued to feed into their son’s delusion and feel like they are doing the right thing because he is now so happy.
But not everyone agrees that this was the right decision.
However, Walt Heyer, an author and activist who underwent a sex change operation decades ago, regretted the surgery, and returned to identifying as a male again, says children cannot be born as one gender and identify as another by accident.
“There’s a lot of questions here. Kids are not born transgender. Childhood developmental disorder that comes out of some event or series of events or abuse or neglect or trauma or overbearing mother or father or someone or a lot of times its sexual abuse,” Heyer told The Daily Caller, referencing his reaction to a documentary about transgenders, where a little boy, who now identified as a girl, asked his mother if she would still love him if he was still a boy.
“The reason I jumped off the couch is because that’s what happened to me. My grandmother kept cross-dressing me and loving on me as a girl and not as the boy God made,” he said.
What would happen if Jack/Jackie’s parents refused to allow the transformation into a girl, or at least they didn’t succumb to their child deciding to be a girl?
Would the child eventually become depressed and suicidal, or would he accept being a boy and learn to love the gender he was born as?
What do you think of this?
everyone always screams science, science, science, except when the science can't be manipulated. this is about evironment, plain and simple. anything else is creative denial. show us the double blind, independent study that shows the boys have female pheremones, and the girls have male pheremones. thats right you can't, because if you had those pheremones you wouldn't have male sex organs or vice versa. its all psychologically created, because if you turned on the pheremones of the male who claims to be female, they would instantly become masculine, and fight other males for the nearest available females, to mate. or show us they have no pheremones, and explain why they have sperm or eggs, if their are no pheremones. if an adult male wants to be female or vise versa, let them. its their choice, but pushing this on children through social engineering or parenting is wrong. respect is a 2 way street and everyone needs to allow adults to make their choices, and not condemn the other. whether its the religious or the gay communities, each must respect the other, and stop using children as tools. as we can see how negative its been, stop sexualizing children, let them be children, while their children
ReplyDeleteNatural selection at work. Males (XY) can't get pregnant -- no matter how hard they try. If they whack off their nuts in an effort to become a female, they can not procreate their genes as a man either.
ReplyDeleteParents who allow their sons to follow this path deny their own genes procreation opportunities through their sons. Their genetic expression goes extinct. Bravo!
And why was he miserable being a boy? Simple conditioning born of currently fashionable propaganda. Males are bumbling, brutal fools who need to be controlled by lofty, wise females...you see it on Disney...you hear it in coffee shops.
ReplyDeleteWhen my boy was 3 he said he wanted to be a girl. I asked him why and he said "girls are cool", his way of saying he likes girls. We left if at that and neither said another word about it. Now at 7 he has no memory of the conversation (I asked him if he rememebers). He has lots of friends, both girls and boys. He is a very typical 7 year old boy and proud of who he is. There is no way a 4 year old has any idea what they are talking about regarding sex or gender at that age unless adults are interfering with their normal development. If my son tells me at 20 years old that he identifies as a woman I will accept that and love him just the same but I find that highly unlikely to happen. Selfish adults mess up many children's lives.
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